Dating in a digital age comes with some challenges, but it is possible to take the pain out of dating.
Know your worth. It comes from within rather than without. By knowing your worth, you are less reliant on other’s approval. By valuing you, rejection might sting but it will not break you. Did you know that knowing how to value yourself, you are subconsciously attracting that others to do the same? And this is highly attractive quality.
Eliminate perfection. Or it’s better to totally delete it. Perfectionism is a recipe to failure. In the search for a partner, there is no such thing as perfect. So stop looking for it. As cliché as it may sound, our “flaws” are what make us beautiful.
Your date is human too. Don’t be so preoccupied on your own dating anxiety that you stopped thinking that your date might be anxious too. Taking the burden off yourself and working to help the other person relax has a two-way benefit. It helps them feel special and more at ease and diverting your focus away from yourself makes you feel more calm and confident.
It’s (not) all about the looks. Of course you should still put an effort on how you look. Do you know that feeling well-groomed makes us actually feel better? Looks are important but you do not have to be drop dead gorgeous. I heard maybe an 80-year old man told someone that his wife is not the most beautiful woman in the world but she is to his eyes
Calm yourself right now. Being more relaxed and calm during your date allows you to feel more spontaneous and playful, all of which means you will have more fun and increase the likelihood you’ll be more attractive.
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